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"Happiness is like a kiss. You must share it to enjoy it." ~Bernard Meltzer

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Wednesday, October 10, 2007

A Little Bit of History


I read something the other day that astounded me. I don't ever remember learning this in school; that doesn't mean that I wasn't taught it, I just don't recall this information. Unfortunately, there is probably quite a bit I don't recall!

Well, let me give you a bit of history; it has to do with the Emancipation Proclamation, which was issued in January of 1863. Did you know that the Emancipation Proclamation only freed slaves that were in states rebelling against the Union? Slaves that were in the Union, and slaves that were in southern states that were already under the Union's control were not freed.

Sad, isn't it?

The following is a letter to President Lincoln, written by Annie Davis. It is taken from A Patriot's Handbook, by Caroline Kennedy.


Belair [Md.]


Mr president It is my Desire to be free. to go to see my people on the eastern shore. my mistress wont let me you will please let me know if we are free. and what i can do. I write to you for advice. please send me word this week. or as soon as possible and oblidge.



Go forth, and enjoy your freedom.

2 comments:

givemethehighway said...

Lisa, I found your site through the Hayward friends section of Pastor Mark's site. When I read your post about Lincoln's Emancipation Proclamation I felt compelled to comment. First, if you find this part of our history interesting (as I do); let me suggest "Team of Rivals" by Doris Kearns Goodwin. She is a presidential historian who did an excellent job writing about Lincoln's term of office, the social, political and economic realities of that day and how they affected his presidency.
It was a shame that all slaves could not be freed at the same time, but the political reality of the time was that if Lincoln has freed the slaves in the 'Border States', they would have left the Union too and that would have meant the end of the United States as it existed. Lincoln abhorred slavery and wanted to see it ended, but he also knew that that would not happen in a country torn in two, with a new nation being established upon the foundation of slavery. So his first task was to preserve the Union and then to see slavery abolished. We take our democratic republic for granted, as something of a birthright (which the founding fathers believed it was) but in Lincoln's day, only a couple of generations removed from Independence, it was still an experiment whose outcome was still in doubt throughout much of the world. Lincoln believed that "all men are created equal." He also knew we were being tested, "whether that nation, or any nation so conceived and so dedicated, can long endure."
Being a student of that time in our history, I sometimes am dismayed at the attempts by 'revisionists' to paint Lincoln as ambivalent towards slavery. Nothing could be further from the truth. I am not saying that was your intent, I just wanted to point out that history must be viewed in whole. Comments and actions taken out of context can often be misunderstood.
PS. I love your comments about motherhood, especially about the difference between toddlers and teens. I look forward to reading more of your posts.

Lisa said...

Thank you so much for your comments and clarification. You are right, I never, ever intended to paint a bad picture of President Lincoln; I have nothing but respect for him. I know enough about politics to know that decisions made are for many reasons, some that we may never know. (To be honest, I'm sure there are some things our government knows that I really don't want to know!) My point basically, was that I was never aware that only certain slaves were freed. Once again, thank you.

The Dare Chair

Come on in, and pull up a chair! I'm here to inspire you, encourage you, or just plaine Double Dog Dare you to get out and do something you never thought you could do! Periodically, I'll add a quote, comment, or story which will hopefully give you just enough of a nudge to follow your dreams... to take that class, go rock climbing, run a marathon, start that exercise routine, eat healthy, write a book, or whatever your heart desires. You are the author of your life... live it!

Monday: Sit down, have a cup of dare, and write down your goals. Post them all over the house, if it helps! No matter how crazy the goals seem, don't talk yourself out of them! You are strong, you are invincible, you are WOMAN!

Tuesday:
Find a friend to hold you accountable. Accountability is huge! If you have a network of support, your chances of failing are less. Make sure you choose someone that is not afraid of pushing you! Usually moms, grandmas and husbands are not the best choices; they're either afraid of hurting your feelings, think you are fine just the way you are, or do not want to end up in the dog's house! So, choose that friend that is honest, no matter what the cost... trust me, you'll need her!

Wednesday:
Okay, so now you have someone to hold you accountable; great start. Now, be a blabber-mouth. Tell as many people as you can what your goal is. Knowing that so many people are waiting for you to succeed will be a huge motivator. I know when I skiied the Birkie, there were many times along the trail that I truly wanted to quit. I knew I had a cheering section on Main Street waiting for me to cross that finish line. That was enough to motivate me to keep going, one stride at a time.

Thursday:
If you fully realize nothing else, take a big dose of reality on this one... this is going to be hard, uncomfortable, and many times not enjoyable (depending on what the goal is). So, now that you know that, get over it! Achieving your goal will be worth the sweat and tears. Really... it will. Push yourself beyond your former limits. Get rid of self doubt! Even if it is the hardest thing you've ever done, do it with all you've got! Swallow your insecurities, hide your inhibitions, and show yourself just how strong you really are. YOU CAN DO THIS!

Friday:
Try not to look too far into the future. Break your goal into steps, and focus on one at a time. Now, if your goal is to join a class, by all means bite the bullet and do it now; no need to take baby steps on that one! But, if your goal is for example, a marathon, don't quit after the first week because you can't run ten miles! Give yourself time to reach the larger goals. In the meantime, give it ALL YOU'VE GOT, and be pleased with the little steps towards your goal.

Saturday:
NEVER, NEVER, NEVER, GIVE UP!!! (Take it from Winston Churchill... he knew what he was talking about!)


Sunday:
Take one day to rest, or have a special treat. You've worked hard all week, but make sure you don't reward yourself too much... i.e. a whole bag of Hershey's Kisses!!!

SHARE YOUR SUCCESSES WITH YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY. SHOW THEM YOUR PROGRESS, WHETHER IT IS ART WORK YOU'VE DONE, CLASS WORK, A NEW DANCE YOU'VE LEARNED, OR THE NEW PAIR OF PANTS YOU NOW FIT INTO. CELEBRATE!!

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INSPIRING QUOTES: If children have the ability to ignore all odds and percentages, then maybe we can all learn from them. When you think about it, what other choice is there but to hope? We have two options, medically and emotionally: give up, or Fight Like Hell. ~Lance Armstrong
If human beings are perceived as potentials rather than problems, as possessing strengths instead of weaknesses, as unlimited rather that dull and unresponsive, then they thrive and grow to their capabilities.
Barbara Bush
Those who dare to fail miserably can achieve greatly.
John F. Kennedy
He who believes is strong; he who doubts is weak. Strong convictions precede great actions.
Louisa May Alcott
There's a need for accepting responsibility - for a person's life and making choices that are not just ones for immediate short-term comfort. You need to make an investment, and the investment is in health and education.
Buzz Aldrin

This Chick's Groovy Music... start dancin'!

  • Aretha Franklin
  • Chicago Motion Picture Soundtrack... This one is great to sing along to... especially when cleaning the house!
  • Chris Botti... great trumpet player, his music is just beautiful!
  • Christmas Music, of course! Bing, Frank, Rosemary... all the classics!
  • Diana Krall
  • Ella Fitzgerald
  • Eric Clapton... I can' t seem to hear enough of his music lately!
  • Eva Cassidy... worth finding!
  • Johnny Cash - great for two-stepping around the kitchen island... if a babe is in your arms, all the better! (A tiny babe, or a Hunky Babe... either one will do!)
  • Loggins & Messina.... ahh... "feel good" music
  • Neil Diamond... I've loved his music my whole life.
  • Norah Jones
  • Phantom of the Opera (motion picture soundtrack)
  • Ray Charles... I can't help but to smile when I hear him sing.
  • Renee Olstead
  • The Notebook Motion Picture Soundtrack